Paul warns us in 2 Timothy 3:1 that in the days between Christ’s first coming and His second coming that perilous or dangerous times would come to the church. Matthew uses this same word to describe the demoniac in Matthew chapter 8 when he says that this man was so violent that nobody could pass by that way.
So what exactly will make these times so dangerous for the church? The answer never ceases to amaze me because the answer is the church! What will make things so dangerous for the church? The church will. This passage is talking about those who have a form of godliness (the outward trappings and profession of Christianity) but they deny its power (no inward change brought about by the Spirit of God) (3:5). It’s talking about imposters who deceive and are deceived (3:13) and those who hear sound doctrine (4:3) but turn away from it.
The first “turn” in 2 Timothy 4:4 is active; they do the turning, they don’t want the truth. The second turn in 4:4 is passive, the idea being that as they turn their heads away from the truth something grabs them, as it where, and leads them still further away from the truth. They are given over to believe lies (2 Thessalonians 2:11).
Paul goes on in chapter 4 to tell us that days are coming when these professing Christians gathered in the church will no longer endure sound doctrine and wanting to have their ears tickled they will pile up teachers claiming to speak for God but telling them whatever they want to hear rather than what God says. What an amazingly accurate picture of a vast majority of churches in our day!
There it is, right in front of our eyes, written a couple thousand years ago describing with amazing accuracy a vast majority of churches in our day and those that it is speaking of hardly give it any pause and ever consider that it is speaking of them. Amazing!
They “will be lovers of themselves (they will have high self-esteem), lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God” and still gather in the church and still profess to be Christians.
And how should the true child of God respond to these people? Refuse to pass judgment on their behavior because we are all sinners? Love them unconditionally? Invite them to get involved in the church? Not at all, Paul tells us explicitly to turn away from them.
But Jesus tells us to “judge not,” doesn’t He? Yes He does but in the very same passage He tells us not to throw our pearls “before swine” thereby calling on us to judge some men to be swine. He also tells us to "...Judge with righteous judgment." in John 7:24. And in Matthew 18: 15-20 He commands us to judge a professing brothers actions, call on that brother to repent in cases of flagrant sin and if that professing brother refuses he is to be removed from the church until he does.
Likewise, Paul commands us in 1 Corinthians 5: 1-12 to remove the unrepentant sinner from the local body of Christ (the local church) before that persons sin spreads like a cancer through the rest of the body.
Jesus called some men hypocrites, snakes, blind guides, fools, whitewashed tombs and more (Mathew 23 for instance). Paul called some men evil workers, dogs, false apostles and made crude remarks about their meaningless circumcision (Philippians 3:2). John called some men anti-Christs (1 John 3: 18), liars (1 John 2: 4) and children of the Devil (1John 3: 10). In saying these things we are being called to recognize the truthfulness of them and make judgments about them.
So how do we square these things? Is the Bible contradicting itself? Is it telling us in some places to make judgments on other peoples behavior and in other places warning us not to? Not at all, God never contradicts Himself. The answer is fairly simple. We are to use judgment. We are even to judge other men, but it must always be done in great humility, soberness and fear before the face of God knowing that we have the same propensities in our own hearts and if it were not for the grace of God we could just as well commit the same sins.
We must not judge others in contempt (Romans 14: 10) as if we are somehow intrinsically better than them but neither should we refuse to judge others because we too are sinners. Such actions, while pretending great humility, are really the fruit of great arrogance and are themselves a sinful disobedience of the Word of God.
Just as refusing to discipline our children is an act of hatred towards them (Proverbs 13:24) because we are leaving them to error when we could have helped them correct it, refusing to talk to others about their sin is also an act of hatred. Exposing people’s sin is the first step of sharing the good news of the gospel. If people are not brought to recognize their sin they will not seek a savior and if they never find the Savior they will die in their sins and experience the just wrath of God for all eternity. So how can we call it “loving” to refuse to make judgments about the sins of other men? What are we doing but sending them to hell with a warm feeling in their heart and calling it an act of “Love”.