Saturday, September 29, 2007
This is legality!
Arminianism
“Arminianism, by making the love and salvation of God to turn upon the fulfillment of conditions on the part of the sinner instead of entirely upon grace, encourages an error which cannot be too strongly opposed: 'Do you not see at once that this is legality,' says Spurgeon, ' that this is hanging our salvation upon our work that this is making our eternal life to depend on something we do? Nay, the doctrine of justification itself, as preached by an Arminian, is nothing but the doctrine of salvation by works, after all; for he always thinks faith is a work of the creature, and a condition of his acceptance. It is as false to say that man is saved by faith as a work, as that he is saved by the deeds of the Law. We are saved by faith as the gift of God, and as the first token of his eternal favour to us; but it is not faith as our work that saves, otherwise we are saved by works and not by grace at all.”
From The Forgotten Spurgeon
By Iain H. Murray / Banner Of Truth
The Epicenter of Christian Doctrine Part 6
God is entirely God centered, He does not break the first commandment! As john Piper has so correctly pointed out we could change the wording of the first question of The Westminster Shorter Catechism to this:
A. Gods chief end is to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever.
Friday, September 28, 2007
Christ did something or other
"Once a blurred and indistinct view of the atonement is accepted in the Church it is more than likely that the next generation will come to the ultimate obscurity of a man like F. W. Robertson of Brighton, of whom it was said, 'Robertson believed that Christ did something or other, which, somehow or other, had some connection or other with salvation.'"
Taken from The Forgotten Spurgeon
By Iain H. Murray / Banner Of Truth
What is Family Reformation?
What is Family Reformation?
By: James McDonald
"As a pastor, I’m increasingly saddened by the failure of the Christian family. Yes, I said failure. I know that may seem like an extreme statement, but consider the proof...."
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The trouble with talking too fast
a Massive 17 Pounds
"MOSCOW — A small Russian city just got a really big addition: its resident has delivered her 12th baby at 17.05 pounds — the biggest on the nation's record.
Tatiana Khalina, 42, delivered the girl by Caesarean section at a maternity clinic in Aleisk, a town of 30,000 in the Altai region in southern Siberia, Svetlana Gildeyeva, a nurse at the clinic, said Thursday."
Thursday, September 27, 2007
Why should he punish twice for one offence?
Atonement, The
"In other words, the Cross has a Godward reference; it was a propitiatory work through which the Father is pacified and it is on this ground, namely, Christ's obedience and blood, that all the blessings of salvation flow freely and surely to sinners. This is what is so clearly taught in Romans 3:25, 26. Writing on these verses, Robert Haldane says: 'God is shown not only to be merciful to forgive, but He is faithful and just to forgive the sinner his sins. Justice has received full payment, and guarantees his deliverance. Even the chief of sinners are shown in the propitiatory sacrifice of their Surety, to be perfectly worthy of Divine love, because they are not only perfectly innocent, but have the righteousness of God. 'He hath made him to be sin for us who knew no sin, that we might be made the righteousness of God in him.' Spurgeon gloried in this truth: 'He has punished Christ, why should he punish twice for one offence? Christ has died for all his people's sins, and if thou art in the covenant, thou art one of Christ's people. Damned thou canst not be. Suffer for thy sins thou canst not. Until God can be unjust, and demand two payments for one debt, he cannot destroy the soul for whom Jesus died."
Taken from The Forgotten Spurgeon
By Iain H. Murray / Banner Of Truth
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
Requisites of Acceptable Prayer #6 -Faith
From Systematic Theology By Charles Hodge
Requisites of Acceptable Prayer #5 -Submission
5. Submission. Every man who duly appreciates his relation to God, will, no matter what his request, be disposed to say, "Lord, not my will but thine be done." Even a child feels the propriety of subjecting his will in all his requests to his earthly father. How much more should we submit to the will of our Father in heaven. He alone knows what is best; granting our request might, in many cases, be our destruction. Our Lord in the
Father's Administration of Christ's Kingdom in His Home
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A convicting must hear sermon from Jeff Pollard.
- Father's Administration of Christ's Kingdom in His Home
Pastor Jeff Pollard
John 1:1-2,14
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Elders That Rule Well - pt 1
- Elders That Rule Well - pt 1
Pastor Jeff Pollard
1 Timothy 5:17-25
Be careful of your thoughts
Requisites of Acceptable Prayer #4 -Importunity
"4. Importunity. This is so important that on three different occasions our Lord impressed its necessity upon his disciples. This was one evident design of the history of the Syrophonician woman, who could not be prevented from crying, "Have mercy on me, O Lord, thou son of David." (Matt. xv. 22.) Thus also in the parable of the unjust judge, who said, "Because this widow troubleth me, I will avenge her, lest by her continual coining she weary me. And the Lord said, I lour what the unjust judge saith. And shall not God avenge his own elect, which cry day and night unto Him, though lie bear long with them? I tell you that He will avenge them speedily." (Luke xviii. 5-8.). Again in Luke xi. 5-8, we read of the man who refused to give his friend bread, of whom Christ said, "Though he will not rise and give him, because he is his friend, yet because of his importunity he will rise and give him as many as he needeth." God deals with us as a wise benefactor. He requires that we should appreciate the value of the blessings for which we ask, and that we should manifest a proper earnestness of desire. If a man begs for his own life or for the life of one dear to him, there is no repressing his importunity. He will not be refused. If the life of the body is to be thus earnestly sought, can we expect that the life of the soul will be granted to those who do not seek it with importunate earnestness."
From Systematic Theology By Charles Hodge
Monday, September 24, 2007
Requisites of Acceptable Prayer #3 -Humility
3. Humility. This includes, first, a due sense of our insignificance as creatures; and secondly, a proper apprehension of our ill-desert and uncleanness in the sight of God as sinners. It is the opposite of self-righteousness, of self-complacency and self-confidence. It is the spirit manifested by Job, when he placed his hand, upon his mouth, and his mouth in tie dust, and said, I abhor myself, and repent in dust and ashes; by Isaiah when he said, Woe is me because I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips; and by the publican, who was afraid to lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his breast, and said, God be merciful to me a sinner. Such Language is often regarded as exaggerated or hypocritical. It is however, appropriate. It expresses the state of mind which cannot fail to be produced by a proper apprehension of our character as sinners, in the sight of a just and holy God. Indeed there is no language which can give adequate expression to that rational sense of sin which the people of God often experience.
From Systematic Theology By Charles Hodge
Sunday, September 23, 2007
Requisites of Acceptable Prayer #2 -Reverence
From Systematic Theology By Charles Hodge
Requisites of Acceptable Prayer #1 -Sincerity
"1. The first and most obviously necessary requisite of acceptable prayer is sincerity. God is a Spirit. He searches the heart. He is not satisfied with words, or with external homage. He cannot be deceived and will not be mocked. It is a great offence, therefore, in his sight, when we utter words before Him in which our hearts do not join. We sin against Him when we use terms, in the utterance of which the angels veil their faces, with no corresponding feelings of reverence; or use the formulas of thanksgiving without gratitude; or those of humility and confession without any due sense of our unworthiness ; or those of petition without desire for the blessings we ask. Every one must acknowledge that this is an evil often attending the prayers of sincere Christians; and with regard to the multitudes who, in places of public worship, repeat the solemn forms of devotion or profess to unite with those who utter them, without any corresponding emotions, the service is little more than mockery."
From Systematic Theology By Charles Hodge
Saturday, September 22, 2007
Roles of Men and Women in the Church, Part 2
Fatherhood/Manhood/Patriarchy
Audio Links
Don't miss part 2 of this excellent message by William Einwechter!
- Roles of Men and Women in the Church, Part 2
William O. Einwechter
1 Timothy 2:11-15
Friday, September 21, 2007
Wrath without any pity
Eternal Punishment, Hell, Wrath of God
"Consider this, you that are here present, that yet remain in an unregenerate state. That God will execute the fierceness of his anger, implies, that he will inflict wrath without any pity. When God beholds the ineffable extremity of your case, and sees your torment to be so vastly disproportioned to your strength, and sees how your poor soul is crushed, and sinks down, as it were, into an infinite gloom; he will have no compassion upon you, he will not forbear the executions of his wrath, or in the least lighten his hand; there shall be no moderation or mercy, nor will God then at all stay his rough wind; he will have no regard to your welfare, nor be at all careful lest you should suffer too much in any other sense, than only that you shall not suffer beyond what strict justice requires. Nothing shall be withheld, because it is so hard for you to bear. Ezek. viii. 18. "Therefore will I also deal in fury: mine eye shall not spare, neither will I have pity; and though they cry in mine ears with a loud voice, yet I will not hear them." Now God stands ready to pity you; this is a day of mercy; you may cry now with some encouragement of obtaining mercy. But when once the day of mercy is past, your most lamentable and dolorous cries and shrieks will be in vain; you will be wholly lost and thrown away of God, as to any regard to your welfare. God will have no other use to put you to, but to suffer misery; you shall be continued in being to no other end; for you will be a vessel of wrath fitted to destruction; and there will be no other use of this vessel, but to be filled full of wrath. God will be so far from pitying you when you cry to him, that it is said he will only "laugh and mock," Prov. i. 25, 26, &c."
- From Sinners in the Hand of an Angry God by Jonathan Edwards
Thursday, September 20, 2007
The Epicenter of Christian Doctrine Part 5
The Westminster Shorter Catechism so brilliantly says it like this:
Q. 1. What is the chief end of man?
A. Man’s chief end is to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever.
Our puritan fathers said that our chief (ultimate) end (purpose) is to glorify God, a term which is thrown around a lot, but what does it mean? What exactly does it mean to “glorify” God?
The root of the word speaks of heaviness and weight. And what makes something heavy or weighty? Answer: What it consists of or what it is made up of. What it is intrinsically. So glory came to speak of something’s intrinsic excellence.
When we speak of Gods glory we are speaking of the manifestation of His inner attributes, the shining forth of His own intrinsic beauty, excellence and worthiness. For this reason Gods glory is often associated with light, such as in Exodus 24:17 or Luke 2:9 for light reveals things and makes them manifest.
Light and glory speak of God revealing Himself. When we speak about glorifying God, we are speaking of making God known or reflecting His moral attributes. We are speaking of exhibiting and acknowledging who he is and giving him the honor, praise and reverence do Him.
Why did God create so many plants, bushes, trees etc.? To exhibit and show forth His great wisdom in using the sun, soil and water to bring all manner of plant life out of little dried up seeds. It exhibits the providence and care of God in sustaining them. It exhibits the power of God in sustaining them all. And it exhibits the great care of God in using them to provide air, food, shelter, beauty and more for His other creatures.
Why did God create so many animals and bugs? To show forth His great diversity in creating an infinite variety of strange and wonderful creatures and His infinite power in providing for them and sustaining them all.
Why all the planets, stars, the sun and the moon? “The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament sheweth his handywork. Day unto day uttereth speech, and night unto night sheweth knowledge. There is no speech nor language, where their voice is not heard.” Psalm 19: 1-3. “For the invisible things of him from the creation of the world are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even his eternal power and Godhead; so that they are without excuse: Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God…” Romans 1:20,21.
We could continue on about every aspect of creation, but when we come to man, man is the greatest of Gods creation! Man is the jewel in the crown, man is the capstone! Man reflects God like nothing else in creation can! Man alone is said to be created in the “image” of God. Man is the ultimate reflection of God. But man has marred this image.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Hatred of fertility and large families
From Scott Brown online
"Hatred of fertility and large families will always end the same: unforseen economic problems and a net loss of love in this world. The people who contradict scripture on birth control will always at some point eat their words and some will gnash their teeth. But in the mean time they will trade the biblical tenor on the matter for their own thinking that argues, "God gave us a brain for planning, so birth control is lawful."
Parents listed peer pressure???
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A recent survey by The Barna Group reports that "When asked to identify the most significant or challenging issues facing their teenagers, parents listed peer pressure..."
Now this is ironic, the first thing that I am asked when the average person finds out that I home school my children is "What about socialization?" I would guess that eight or nine out of ten non-home schoolers immediately ask me this question often implying that my children will never survive adulthood if I don't get them into public school to learn how to socialize with their peers. But when asked what is the most challenging issue facing their children the leading answer is socialization (peer pressure). Thats funny, my kids don't have peer pressure and they can socialize with all age groups.
Anyway, heres Kevin Swanson discussing this issue on Generations Radio.
- The Problems With Private and Public Schooling
Kevin Swanson • Peer Pressure • 25 min.
Generations Radio
Be careful what books you read
“Be careful what books you read, for as water tastes of the soil it runs though, so does the soul taste of the authors that a man reads.”
- John TrappTuesday, September 18, 2007
The Epicenter of Christian Doctrine Part 4
God exercised His attributes in creation in order that He might rejoice in their work. He is the cause by which all things are made and the reason for which they are made: “For of him, and through him, and to him, are all things…” Romans 11:36
God’s grace could not find expression apart from wicked men to lavish it on.
God’s patience could not find expression apart from unworthy people to be patient with.
God’s righteous anger could have no expression apart from unrepentant sinners to pour it out upon.
God’s goodness is magnified when He is good to those who don’t deserve it.
God’s love is magnified when he loves the wretched and unlovable.
God’s justice is magnified in redeeming the guilty by suffering their penalty.
God’s moral rectitude is magnified in the eternal punishment of sinners.
Nonbelievers Find Strength in Numbers
- In America, Nonbelievers Find Strength in Numbers
By Jacqueline L. Salmon
Washington Post Staff Writer
Discipline: The Biblical Doctrine
Church Discipline
Discipline: The Biblical Doctrine Audio CDBy Jeff Pollard / Vision Forum
Monday, September 17, 2007
Epicenter of Christian Doctrine Part 3
This makes perfect sense! For instance: if God is infinitely and perfectly good, then He must love, value and esteem what is most good. And if God is infinitely and perfectly holy, then He must love, value and esteem what is most holy. And if God is infinitely and perfectly just, then He must love, value and esteem what is most just. And if God is infinitely and perfectly righteous, then He must love, value and esteem what is most righteous. And if God posses and exercises infinitely perfect love, then He will love with the greatest love that which is most worthy of such love.
So tell me, what is most good? What is most holy? What is most just? What is most righteous? And what is the most worthy of object of perfect love? The answer is obvious; God! God is most worthy.
Now if Gods love is infinitely perfect, then the degree and intensity of His love will correspond to the worthiness of the object loved. And if God is infinitely worthy, He will love Himself to an infinite degree. Herein lies the answer to our question “Why did God create?” God infinitely loves and delights in his own perfect attributes, and because of this, He infinitely loves and delights in the exercise of His attributes, and for this reason He has exercised them in creation; that He might rejoice in their work.
Understood in this way, God is the cause by which all things are made and the reason for which all things are made. In this light He is the beginning and the end, the first and the last, the Alpha and the Omega. Now that is Biblical! This is what Romans 11:36 tells us: “For of him, and through him, and to him, are all things…” This is what Colossians 1:16,17 are telling us “For by him were all things created, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: all things were created by him, and for him: And he is before all things, and by him all things consist.” God acts for His own sake: “For mine own sake, even for mine own sake, will I do it…” Isaiah 48:11.
Even the wicked exist for God: “The LORD hath made all things for himself: yea, even the wicked for the day of evil.” Proverbs 16:4. When all is said and done it will be seen that even the wicked will be taking part in exercise of Gods attributes, how incredibly frustrating to those who hate God; anything they do will ultimately bring joy to the God they have rebelled against!
George Muller on debt
"December 1, 1842. For the last several months, money and supplies have continued to flow in without interruption as they were needed. There was no excess or lack. But nothing came in today except five shillings for needlework. We only had enough to supply our absolute need—milk. We were unable to purchase the usual quantity of bread.
Someone may ask, "Why don't you buy the bread on credit? What does it matter whether you pay immediately for it or at the end of the month? Since the Orphan Houses are the work of the Lord, can't you trust Him to supply you with money to pay the bills from the butcher, baker, and grocer? After all, the things you purchase are needed so that the work may continue."
My reply is this: If this work is the work of God, then He is surely able and willing to provide for it. He will not necessarily provide at the time we think that there is need. But when there is real need, He will not fail us. We may and should trust in the Lord to supply us with what we require at present, so that there may be no reason to go into debt.
I could buy a considerable amount of goods on credit, but the nest time we were in need, I would turn to further credit instead of turning to the Lord. Faith, which is maintained and strengthened only by exercise, would become weaker and weaker. At last, I would probably find myself deeply in debt with no prospect of getting out of it. Faith rests on the written Word of God, but there is no promise that He will pay our debts. The Word says, "Owe no man any thing" (Romans 13:8). The promise is given to His children, "I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee" (Hebrews 13:5). "He that believeth on him shall not be confounded" (1 Peter 2:6). We have no scriptural grounds to go into debt.
Our goal is to show the world and the Church that even in these last evil days, God is ready to' help, comfort, and answer the prayers of those who trust in Him. We need not go to our fellowmen or to the ways of the world. God is both able and willing to supply us with all we need in His service.
Through the printed accounts of this ministry, many have been converted. We consider it our precious privilege to continue to wait upon the! Lord only instead of buying goods on credit or borrowing money from kind friends. As God gives us grace we will look to Him only, although from meal to meal we have to depend on Him. God is now in the tenth year of feeding these orphans, and He has never allowed them to go hungry. He will care for them in the future also.
I am deeply aware of my own helplessness and dependence on the Lord. Through the grace of God my soul is in peace, although day after day we have to wait on the Lord for our daily bread."Taken from the autobiography of George Muller
Christian Modesty and the Public Undressing of America
Apparel/Clothing
Christian Modesty and the Public Undressing of America CDBy Jeff Pollard / The Vision Forum, Inc
CBD says: "Jeff Pollard address' a rapt crowd in a conference message based on his popular book Christian Modesty and the Public Undressing of American. He summarizes the basic message of the book, but delves even further into areas not as well covered, such as the role that men play in modesty. He speaks with a gentle yet firm tone that doesn't rant against women, but rather clearly addresses the Biblical need for modesty, encouraging both men and women to have a unambiguous understanding of it's biblical importance. In an era of polar extremes, Jeff Pollard gives way to neither legalism nor liberalism, but holds to precisely what he sees in Scripture. Approximately 55 minutes."
Christian Modesty and the Public Undressing of AmericaBy Jeff Pollard / The Vision Forum, Inc
CBD says: "In today's "anything goes" culture, modesty has nearly become an archaic concept. Avoiding both license and legalism, Pollard takes a probing look at the historical roots for the rise of indecency in this country---especially as it pertains to modern swimwear---and challenges Christians to embrace God's standards anew. Courageous and compelling! 77 pages, softcover."
Sunday, September 16, 2007
Saturday, September 15, 2007
The Epicenter of Christian Doctrine Part 2
So what prompted God to create?
Many prominent Christians in our day tell us that God allowed the human race to fall into sin because he had to give us the “free will” to choose to love Him or not. But God had fellowship with Adam and expressed love to him before he fell, God did not have to give the command concerning the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. God could have loved us and had fellowship with us without letting us fall into sin; He could have created a world full of peace, happiness and eternal bliss without it ever being plunged into the utter misery we see all around us now.
George Muller vs. the Bail Worshipers
I must say the autobiography of George Muller has been a real encouragement to prayer and steadfastness. While I don’t think I would wholeheartedly agree with everything he said and did I have to stand in awe of much of what he did do, such as taking care of around one hundred orphans for many years without ever asking any man for help, relying solely on the Lord to answer his prayers and send the help. Amazing!
Friday, September 14, 2007
The Epicenter of Christian Doctrine Part 1
Why do you exist?
Aimless- because you do not know exactly where you are going.
Ineffective- because you don’t know exactly what you are doing. And
Unmotivated- because you don’t exactly have a reason for doing anything.
Thursday, September 13, 2007
Deanna Rose Farmstead
Words of wisdom
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Besieging the New Jerusalem
As mentioned earlier, I’ve been reading The Forgotten Spurgeon once again. Personally I think every Christian should read it once or twice, but anyhow, I love this account of the revival that took place under his ministry as it got underway at
Taken from The Forgotten SpurgeonBy Iain H. Murray / Banner Of Truth
The bow of God's wrath is bent
- From Sinners in the Hand of an Angry God by Jonathan Edwards
Children and the Dominion Mandate
Birth Control
Children
I just recently finished listening to the Vision Forum message Children and the Dominion Mandate by Willaim Einwechter; very good!
By our anti-life and anti-child attitudes and practices we are cutting off our own posterity, destroying our own future and disobeying the Dominion mandate given us by God. The death of Western civilization is no longer a matter of prediction, as pastor Einwechter so clearly points out, it's now a simple mathematical equation.
- Children and the Dominion Mandate Audio CD
By Willaim Einwechter / Vision Forum
Tuesday, September 11, 2007
Evangelism of the humorous type
-Robertson Nicoll
with sails rent to ribbons
“All the way to heaven, we shall only get there by the skin of our teeth. We shall not go to heaven sailing along with sails swelling to the breeze, like sea birds with their fair white wings, but we shall proceed full often with sails rent to ribbons, with masts creaking, and the ship's pumps at work night and day. We shall reach the city at the shutting gate, but not an hour before”
Taken from The Forgotten Spurgeon
By Iain H. Murray / Banner Of Truth
Monday, September 10, 2007
"...justly charged upon their parents..."
From the Preface to the Second London Baptist Confession of'1677
“...And that in this backsliding day, we might not spend our breath in fruitless complaints of the evils of others, but may every one begin at home to reform in the first place our own hearts and ways; and then to quicken all that we may have influence upon to the same work; that if the will of God were so, none might deceive themselves by resting in and trusting to a form of godliness without the power of it and inward experience of the efficacy of those truths that are professed by them.
And verily there is one spring and cause of the decay of religion in our day, which we cannot but touch upon and earnestly urge a redress of; and that is the neglect of the worship of God in families by those to whom the charge and conduct of them is committed. May not the gross ignorance and instability of many with the profaneness of others be justly charged upon their parents and masters, who have not trained them up in the way wherein they ought to walk when they were young? But have neglected those frequent and solemn commands which the Lord hath laid upon them so to catechize and instruct them, that their tender years might be seasoned with the knowledge of the truth of God as revealed in the Scriptures; and also by their own omission of prayer, and other duties of religion in their families, together with the ill example of their loose conversation, have inured them first to a neglect, and then contempt of all piety and religion? We know this will not excuse the blindness, or wickedness of any, but certainly it will fall heavy upon those that have thus been the occasion thereof. They indeed die in their sins; but will not their blood be required of those under whose care they were, who yet permitted them to go on without warning, yea led them into the paths of destruction? And will not the diligence of Christians with respect to the discharge of these duties, in ages past, rise up in judgment against, and condemn many of those who would be esteemed such now?
We shall conclude with our earnest prayer, that the God of all grace will pour out those measures of His Holy Spirit upon us, that the profession of truth may be accompanied with the sound belief and diligent practice of it by us that His name may in all things be glorified through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.”
From the Preface to the Second London Baptist Confession of'1677
Happy is Attractive
New at Polemos
Womanhood, Biblical
Articles, Sermons and Other Writings
By Cindy McDermott of Salt Magazine
"My husband is always so very sweet to me, showering me with compliments. Yesterday he said to me, "You've looked so pretty these past couple of days. And you've seemed so happy. Happy is attractive!"
Hmmm, I thought to myself. So happy is attractive? I really never thought much about that possibility before. Like most women I have spent my share of time in front of the mirror. I look at my simple hairdo (wash and air dry), primp it a little, and decide if it looks ok. I consider whether my dress will be to Jim's liking. Then, of course, comes the side view. How is it looking today? I apply a modest amount of makeup and I'm good to go. Some days I'm more pleased with the results than other days.
My checklist in front of the mirror concentrates only on my outer self. I have no entry there for my inner self. Now I have to wonder why. Why did Jim's comment take my by surprise? It only makes sense. What type of person do we find more pleasant to be around? Is it the pessimistic, sad-faced, complaining person? No. It's the person who laughs and finds the good in things, sharing it with those in his midst with a smile on his face. We are attracted to that kind of person and find it gratifying to be in their presence.
Not only does it make rational sense, but it makes Biblical sense, which is more important. We read in 1 Peter 3:3-6: "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful. They were submissive to their own husbands, like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her master. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear." We tend to put much emphasis on our beauty that comes from our "outward adornment". In proper balance there is a place for that. Our bodies are God's temple and we should take appropriate care of them, including bathing and grooming. Additionally, an unkempt appearance is not a good witness for the Gospel. Our looks should not cast a bad image on God. It may not be fair to judge God based on a person's looks, but that's the way people are.
In regards to marriage there is also a consideration for our outward appearance. We should desire to be attractive to our husbands and to please them in that way. We should look and act feminine. We should take into account our husband's personal preferences and incorporate them into "our look". I don't believe there is anything wrong with our husbands deriving pleasure from our looks, nor is there anything wrong with giving our husbands something beautiful to look at.
By Cindy McDermott





















